Funtions of Apologizing
Many people have complicated feelings about apologies, and not all of our thoughts and feelings about apologies line up. Some of us were forced to apologize as children when we hurt someone, and some of us apologized freely and felt immediately better after having done so. Some people feel shamed by apologizing while others feel ashamed until we have done so
Benefits of Apologizing
Relationships can be great sources of stress relief, but conflict can cause considerable stress, which really takes a toll. Learn the art of apologizing effectively and you may find a significant reduction in the negative effects of conflict and relationship stress because apologies help us put the conflict behind us and move on more easily.
- I apologize
- I'm really sorry
- I'm so sorry
- I'm sorry
- I'm sorry but...
- Sorry
Pre-intermediate
- ...is/was my fault
- (I'm) sorry if...
- I (really) must apologize
- I hope you can forgive me (one day)
- I really am so sorry
- I wasn't doing my job
- I'd like to apologize
- Please forgive me
Intermediate
- ...was very...of me
- (I know) my actions...
- (Looking back), I (now) realise that...
- (Please) don't be angry
- I accept (full) responsibility
- I am/feel (so) ashamed
- I can understand how you feel (about...)
- I do apologize
- I don't know what to say
- I really am most terribly sorry
- I regret...
- I take (all) the blame
- Pardon me!
- Please accept my/our apologies
- Please excuse my behaviour/thoughtlessness/..
Advanced
- (I know) I have let myself/you (all) down (by...)
- (I know) it was thoughtless (of me)
- D'oh!
- I can see how you might be annoyed (by...)
- I can't believe I...
- I don't know what came over me
- I don't know what got into me
- I just want the ground to swallow me up
- I take (full) responsibility
- I think I went a bit too far
- I am/was in the wrong
- I messed up
- I would like to express my regret
- I'm happy to take (my share of) the blame
- If I could take it all back, I would
- It was inexcusable
- It's unforgivable, I know
- Please don't hold a grudge
- Don't hold this against me
- Silly me!
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